Treating Binge Eating Disorder in Children and Teens

A Look at Binge-Eating in Young People

Binge eating in children and teens can be hard to recognize and is often not immediately identified. Many young people are eating regular meals, going to school, and participating in daily life, while privately struggling with episodes of feeling out of control around food. For some, the experience is clearly defined as binge eating. For others, it may feel more like emotional eating or using food to cope with internal discomfort.

At these ages, eating patterns are still developing, and so are the skills needed to manage emotions. That means binge eating often reflects a mix of factors rather than a single cause. There may be irregular eating patterns, sensitivity to hunger and fullness cues, emotional vulnerability, social stress, or underlying anxiety or mood concerns. In many cases, food becomes a reliable way to shift or soothe difficult internal states.

Because of this, treatment is not one size fits all. The most effective approach depends on the child or teen’s age, level of independence, emotional needs, and how the eating patterns are showing up.

Enhanced CBT: An Evidence-Based Option for BED

CBT-E is one of the primary evidence based treatments used with teens and, in some cases, older children (age 10 and up). It focuses on identifying the patterns that maintain binge eating and providing practical tools to change those patterns.

A key part of CBT-E is helping young people establish a more consistent rhythm with eating. Even subtle patterns of restriction, skipped meals, or long gaps between eating can increase vulnerability to binge episodes. Creating steadiness with meals and snacks helps reduce both biological and psychological pressure around food.

CBT - also works directly with thinking patterns that can drive binge eating. Many young people experience all-or-nothing thinking, where a small deviation in eating quickly turns into a sense that everything is off track. Treatment helps slow these moments down and build more flexible responses.

Another important focus is reducing rigid rules around food and broadening how a young person evaluates themselves. When self worth becomes tied too closely to eating or body image, it can make these patterns more persistent. CBT-E helps expand that lens.

Parent Involvement and Support

For children and younger teens, parent involvement becomes more central. Parents are often needed to help create structure around meals, support consistency, and reduce patterns that may unintentionally reinforce cycles with food.

This does not mean taking control in a rigid or punitive way. Instead, parents are guided to provide support, predictability, and a calm framework around eating. They also learn how to respond to their child’s experiences with less pressure and more understanding.

As teens get older, the balance shifts. Parents remain involved, but there is more emphasis on the teen developing their own skills and autonomy. Treatment becomes more collaborative, with the goal of helping the teen take an active role in change while still feeling supported.

Skill-Based Approaches for Emotional Eating

For many children and teens, eating serves a mood regulating function. It may help reduce anxiety, manage boredom, or provide comfort when emotions feel overwhelming. Addressing this piece directly is essential.

Skill-based approaches are used to help young people build alternative ways of responding to what they feel. This can include learning how to recognize emotions earlier, tolerate distress without needing immediate relief, and find other ways to shift or soothe internal states.

The goal is not to remove food as a coping strategy all at once. Instead, it is to gradually expand the range of options available so that eating is no longer the only or primary tool.

Addressing the Full Picture

Binge eating in children and teens often exists alongside other challenges such as anxiety, depression, trauma, or attention related differences. These factors can increase vulnerability and make patterns more difficult to shift.

Effective treatment takes these into account rather than focusing only on the eating behavior. Supporting emotional health more broadly helps create the conditions for change.

Moving Toward a More Flexible Relationship with Food

Treatment for binge eating in children and teens focuses on helping young people develop a more stable and flexible relationship with food, along with stronger skills for navigating their internal world.

With the right combination of structure, support, and skill building, children and teens can begin to step out of patterns that feel confusing or hard to control and move toward a way of eating that feels more steady and manageable.

MELISSA GERSON, LCSW

Melissa Gerson is the founder of Columbus Park Center for Eating Disorders in New York City. Over the last 20-plus years, she has trained in just about every evidence-based eating disorder treatment available to individuals with eating disorders: a dizzying list of acronyms including CBT-E, CBT-AR, DBT, FBT, IPT, SSCM, FBI and more.

Among Melissa’s most important achievements has been a certification as a Family-Based Treatment provider; with her mastery of this potent and life-changing (and life-saving!) modality, she’s treated hundreds of young people successfully and continues to maintain a small caseload of FBT clients as she also focuses on leadership and management roles at Columbus Park.

Since founding Columbus Park in 2008, Melissa has trained multiple generations of eating disorder professionals and has dedicated her time to a combination of clinical practice, writing, and presenting.

https://www.columbuspark.com
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